1 It's Just A Game : I know , you're thinking "Of course it's just a game we knew that" But that's not what I emant . KS is Perfect . Not as in "ERMAGERD ITS AWESOME" but as in the event's that happen in it are too well planned and convenient for it to happen in real life. Think about it , Hisao starts out like most of us , in high school , lonely and he has a crush , which is why most of us instantly connect with him. We consider him a version of ourselves , and so we are eager to find out how he improves his life so we can perhaps do the same. So when :His crush confesses , he gets a heart attack , she stops visiting him , he goes to a school with ungodly beautiful crippled girls , it just seems waay to convienient , and if you focus on that then you will realise more and more that it IS actually just a game , and an impossible series of events that we simply wish were true.
2 Even if it were possible , relationships don't work like that : Unless hisao has a magical love beam or is a ditsant relative of Barney Stinson, in real life you don't just "choose" the girl you want to love you. If you think hard about KS , Hisao is waay to lucky to even be human , he got Lilly to love him just by being nice and drinking tea , and got Emi to love him just by running and having sex ... Life doesn't work like that , the sooner you realize it the less time you'll spend hoping you get arrhythmia. (I know he did more but that's nothing compared to real life , unless you're freakishly hot but that means girls will probably f!@#k you then break your heart)
3 Do you deserve what you want ? : Despite the 2 previous points , there are some amazing women in the world , I'm pretty sure there are girls just as good as the ones in KS (nobody's perfect though) , but the thing is : Do you deserve them ? . Don't forget that it's not only up to you , it is also up to the girl , she also has her own taste in men , and unles she;s obsessed with JB and want's to marry him then I believe if she's a good woman she will set a high bar for her suitors. So do you believe you deserve that woman , that you are a man that's awesome enough to land an awesome woman . I heard a saying before "Women are like Cars , everyone want's a Ferrari" But like Ferrari's need money , women need affection and attention . Do you deserve a Ferrari , or will you just settle for a Prius ?
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4 Improve yourself : If you read the previous point , then you might either think , nah screw'em I'm good. Or : You're right . If it's the latter then get off your a$$ and IMPROVE. That's it improve on anything , lose weight, take up a hobby , practise your social skills anything , to bring yourself closer to someone deserving of a good life , and a good relationship. Good thing's don't come cheap (not money but effort) and you can't keep playing KS hoping that a beautiful blond blind half-scottish girls will knock on your door and offer to have sex ... Earn it , improve yourself so the odds of a good , beautiful , kind and trustworthy woman loving you increase , don't wait for a btter life ... Grab IT.
Well that's all I have , I'm not especially qualified to give advice but that's just the result of 5 consecutive days of thinking about nothing but KS , I hope people find their answer in this , and if you think I'm wrong or dumb just be kind about it , I'm not a therapist I'm just a gamer with a broken heart
Yassodude out
