Re: Have you dated someone like any KS character?
Posted: Thu Mar 14, 2013 3:03 pm
I registered just for this.
I had my Emi once. I met her at a university party where we dressed up with customs. I was dressed as a ship captain and she was dressed as a spanish dancer. I was really drunk, mostly to kill my shyness and allow me to aproach women. I had aproached some girls, but ended up aproaching her and her group. She was really small, like 1.50 meters or so, with a very small frame. Extremely cute and with a extremely beautifull face, blonde, nice fair skin, with breast implants and a nice toned body. Her only physical flaw was a crooked yellow teeth in her upper teeth, which I really didnt mind. I aproacher her group, chated with some of her friends, and danced around. After a while I aproached her and started chating, and we exchanged a few words. She said she was going to the bathroom with her friends, but was coming back in a while. One of my friends called me over and said I should join them, because she was probabily not coming back and just used that as an excuse to get away.
I waited.
And she came back. We kept chating and ended up kissing on the dancing floor. She was very open and had a quite nice personality, finding me funny and laughing at my jokes. You see, I met her about 30 minutes after entering the party, something like 11:30. We ended up staying together for 7 hours, until she left at about 6:30 am.
In our second date we stayed 10 hours together. In our third date we stayed 14 hours together. She was very open about sex too, and we ended up having our first time (in a gas station, in the back seat of my car) mostly due to her advances. In the end we stayed 3 years together, which so far has been the best relationship Ive had so far. The funny thing is that she said she loved me because at that first time we met, at the party, I waited for her to come back. I trusted her, and from that moment she trusted me too.
How was she so similar to Emi? Not only they looked alike, but also personality wise. She was also very much alive, acted silly and shy a few times, but most of the times she had a lot of energy and also liked to laugh a lot. She was very romantic and caring. Her crooked teeth was because a few months before we met she was at a party and there was a fight where a guy fell over her while she was going down some stairs, so she ended up hiting the floor and her front uper teeth came of. She managed to stick it together but it looked bad and she would have to do a teeth implant. So, I did stay with her while she used teeth bracers, did canal treatment (to kill the teeth nerves, which hurt a lot), and did her teeth implant. She had been in a relationship before (6 years), so she was not a virgin.
She also had issues with her small frame, because everyone said she looked like a doll and was too skinny, which she really hated. After understanding her I understood why she got breast implants (230ml in each boob), always overdressed (took a long time getting ready for anything) and also worked out (even through she was extremly weak): Since her frame was almost childlike, she did everything she could to look mature and womanly. I remember watching her run, with her long blonde hair, skinny and childish proportion, and thinking she almost looked like a kid.
She also had family problems (which she didnt like to share): Her parents had divorced and her step father used to beat on her mother, who was very submissev. Her father also used to have a lot of money but lost a lot due to bad comercial choices, and that meant she went from middle class to an almost poor status. Also her sister had a child when she was 15. So, even being 21-23, my ex was the most stable person of the family and helped everyone.
She managed to do college even though she had to take university loans and pay for it herself. She worked since she was 15, and kept working through college to pay the bills and remain independent. So much that even having a hard time she managed to help her family.
Unfortunaly, not everything was so nice. She had some serious mood swings. She was extremely nice about 3 weeks of the month, but there was one week every month before her menstruation that was bad. For 7 days every month she would either get extremly dependent, depressed, sad about the smallest things, extremely horny, angry or other radical emotion, usually one for each day. So she would be nice for 21 days than depressed in one, angry for another, horny for the third day and then dependent for the next 4 days. She was also very small, which means that she would get hurt during sex a lot of times. She wasnt very good at it either, meaning sex was usually kind of boring and not very good because she was very fragile, barely had strengh and energy to do more advanced sex positions and due to her pussy being so small she would get hurt quite a lot of times.
I loved her the entire time, but passion only lasts so long. The good thing about passion is that it gives you energy and motivation to easily do anything necessary to keep loving that person. MY passion for her lasted 2 years, which so far have been the best 2 years of my life. In the third year her family problems, mood swings, high maintenance, dependency and insecurity started to take a toll on me. You see, she loved her family quite a lot and had tons of friends. Every week I had to go to 2 diferent social encounters with her friends/family, which took a large chunk of my free time (I study medicine). Since she was from a somewhat poor family, most people werent that educated or interesting. So, a lot of time we were to spend together was "wasted" on these encounters. I really loved her, but most of the time was spent on social encounters I actually didnt care about. Her passion towards me also diminished, and so we didnt invest in each other so much. We used to cuddle a lot, she gave me romantic gifts and cards with emotional words writen on it, and she used to cook for me, but it started to die down mostly because I didnt reciprocated it. I remember when I gave her a card telling her how important she was to me and how much I loved her: she cried of joy in the spot. Since she couldnt get suport from her family, she asked for a lot of favors. I had to give her car rides and even loaned money sometimes. In the end we slowly drifted apart and I started to act like a jerk due to all the things I did for her, both for favors and emotions, and also hurt because she barely tanked me, mostly due to pride. Yes, she was as proud as Emi, even that is similar. I guess it happens with small girls. We spent less and less time together, fought a bit, and things werent doing that well.
We broke up, mostly due to me being a jerk and a selfish guy. She was an amazing girl, even with her flaws, and I loved quite a bit. Its funny that I really realized it after we broke up. You see, in Katawa Shoujo most of the stories have this theme: Being there for your girl. I failed at that. I wasnt there for her enough and wasnt strong enough to do it. I had a lot of problems and she stood by me. We both suported each other in our flaws. But in the end I was the one who couldnt handle it anymore, and was the reason why it didnt work. It has been about 1 and a half year and she is still important to me, even though Ive dated other women. The worst thing is not that I lost her. Its the guilt. After we broke up I started to realize how much she was trying to make the relationship work, and in my selfishness and pride I neither recognized that nor apreciated it, and actually kept pushing her away. So, you see, I was pushing away a girl who really loved me and gave me the best moments of my life and was trying to make it work. And I pushed her away nonetheless. That is guilt my friends.
Life went on for both of us. We are both in other relationships. What remains are the good memories and also the scenes where I could have acted and did the right thing to save the relationship, but did the wrong things and fucked it. Nonetheless, it was amazing. We both became very intimate and depended on each other, and used the relationship to became better. I think that is why I like Emi story so much: they not only remained together, but Hisao also become better phisicaly, emotionaly and even academicaly. By the end of Emi´s story Hisao is a decent runner, has tamed his heart, has become intimate with Emi, became frieds with Musai and managed to stablish the cornerstones of his future. That is what health relationships do: They help you become better together.
So, Im glad I had my Emi, even if I did the wrong choices and our ending was not the good ending. Thanks for those that readed everything.
I had my Emi once. I met her at a university party where we dressed up with customs. I was dressed as a ship captain and she was dressed as a spanish dancer. I was really drunk, mostly to kill my shyness and allow me to aproach women. I had aproached some girls, but ended up aproaching her and her group. She was really small, like 1.50 meters or so, with a very small frame. Extremely cute and with a extremely beautifull face, blonde, nice fair skin, with breast implants and a nice toned body. Her only physical flaw was a crooked yellow teeth in her upper teeth, which I really didnt mind. I aproacher her group, chated with some of her friends, and danced around. After a while I aproached her and started chating, and we exchanged a few words. She said she was going to the bathroom with her friends, but was coming back in a while. One of my friends called me over and said I should join them, because she was probabily not coming back and just used that as an excuse to get away.
I waited.
And she came back. We kept chating and ended up kissing on the dancing floor. She was very open and had a quite nice personality, finding me funny and laughing at my jokes. You see, I met her about 30 minutes after entering the party, something like 11:30. We ended up staying together for 7 hours, until she left at about 6:30 am.
In our second date we stayed 10 hours together. In our third date we stayed 14 hours together. She was very open about sex too, and we ended up having our first time (in a gas station, in the back seat of my car) mostly due to her advances. In the end we stayed 3 years together, which so far has been the best relationship Ive had so far. The funny thing is that she said she loved me because at that first time we met, at the party, I waited for her to come back. I trusted her, and from that moment she trusted me too.
How was she so similar to Emi? Not only they looked alike, but also personality wise. She was also very much alive, acted silly and shy a few times, but most of the times she had a lot of energy and also liked to laugh a lot. She was very romantic and caring. Her crooked teeth was because a few months before we met she was at a party and there was a fight where a guy fell over her while she was going down some stairs, so she ended up hiting the floor and her front uper teeth came of. She managed to stick it together but it looked bad and she would have to do a teeth implant. So, I did stay with her while she used teeth bracers, did canal treatment (to kill the teeth nerves, which hurt a lot), and did her teeth implant. She had been in a relationship before (6 years), so she was not a virgin.
She also had issues with her small frame, because everyone said she looked like a doll and was too skinny, which she really hated. After understanding her I understood why she got breast implants (230ml in each boob), always overdressed (took a long time getting ready for anything) and also worked out (even through she was extremly weak): Since her frame was almost childlike, she did everything she could to look mature and womanly. I remember watching her run, with her long blonde hair, skinny and childish proportion, and thinking she almost looked like a kid.
She also had family problems (which she didnt like to share): Her parents had divorced and her step father used to beat on her mother, who was very submissev. Her father also used to have a lot of money but lost a lot due to bad comercial choices, and that meant she went from middle class to an almost poor status. Also her sister had a child when she was 15. So, even being 21-23, my ex was the most stable person of the family and helped everyone.
She managed to do college even though she had to take university loans and pay for it herself. She worked since she was 15, and kept working through college to pay the bills and remain independent. So much that even having a hard time she managed to help her family.
Unfortunaly, not everything was so nice. She had some serious mood swings. She was extremely nice about 3 weeks of the month, but there was one week every month before her menstruation that was bad. For 7 days every month she would either get extremly dependent, depressed, sad about the smallest things, extremely horny, angry or other radical emotion, usually one for each day. So she would be nice for 21 days than depressed in one, angry for another, horny for the third day and then dependent for the next 4 days. She was also very small, which means that she would get hurt during sex a lot of times. She wasnt very good at it either, meaning sex was usually kind of boring and not very good because she was very fragile, barely had strengh and energy to do more advanced sex positions and due to her pussy being so small she would get hurt quite a lot of times.
I loved her the entire time, but passion only lasts so long. The good thing about passion is that it gives you energy and motivation to easily do anything necessary to keep loving that person. MY passion for her lasted 2 years, which so far have been the best 2 years of my life. In the third year her family problems, mood swings, high maintenance, dependency and insecurity started to take a toll on me. You see, she loved her family quite a lot and had tons of friends. Every week I had to go to 2 diferent social encounters with her friends/family, which took a large chunk of my free time (I study medicine). Since she was from a somewhat poor family, most people werent that educated or interesting. So, a lot of time we were to spend together was "wasted" on these encounters. I really loved her, but most of the time was spent on social encounters I actually didnt care about. Her passion towards me also diminished, and so we didnt invest in each other so much. We used to cuddle a lot, she gave me romantic gifts and cards with emotional words writen on it, and she used to cook for me, but it started to die down mostly because I didnt reciprocated it. I remember when I gave her a card telling her how important she was to me and how much I loved her: she cried of joy in the spot. Since she couldnt get suport from her family, she asked for a lot of favors. I had to give her car rides and even loaned money sometimes. In the end we slowly drifted apart and I started to act like a jerk due to all the things I did for her, both for favors and emotions, and also hurt because she barely tanked me, mostly due to pride. Yes, she was as proud as Emi, even that is similar. I guess it happens with small girls. We spent less and less time together, fought a bit, and things werent doing that well.
We broke up, mostly due to me being a jerk and a selfish guy. She was an amazing girl, even with her flaws, and I loved quite a bit. Its funny that I really realized it after we broke up. You see, in Katawa Shoujo most of the stories have this theme: Being there for your girl. I failed at that. I wasnt there for her enough and wasnt strong enough to do it. I had a lot of problems and she stood by me. We both suported each other in our flaws. But in the end I was the one who couldnt handle it anymore, and was the reason why it didnt work. It has been about 1 and a half year and she is still important to me, even though Ive dated other women. The worst thing is not that I lost her. Its the guilt. After we broke up I started to realize how much she was trying to make the relationship work, and in my selfishness and pride I neither recognized that nor apreciated it, and actually kept pushing her away. So, you see, I was pushing away a girl who really loved me and gave me the best moments of my life and was trying to make it work. And I pushed her away nonetheless. That is guilt my friends.
Life went on for both of us. We are both in other relationships. What remains are the good memories and also the scenes where I could have acted and did the right thing to save the relationship, but did the wrong things and fucked it. Nonetheless, it was amazing. We both became very intimate and depended on each other, and used the relationship to became better. I think that is why I like Emi story so much: they not only remained together, but Hisao also become better phisicaly, emotionaly and even academicaly. By the end of Emi´s story Hisao is a decent runner, has tamed his heart, has become intimate with Emi, became frieds with Musai and managed to stablish the cornerstones of his future. That is what health relationships do: They help you become better together.
So, Im glad I had my Emi, even if I did the wrong choices and our ending was not the good ending. Thanks for those that readed everything.
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