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Eurobeatjester wrote:So, a year ago I ended it with the girl I was seeing over distance and some other issues, namely her entirely overbearing mother. She got into another relationship fairly quickly and about two weeks ago the guy dumped her. I'm getting the conversations that she wants to get back together, she misses me, etc.

I do love her still, but I'm trying to explain to her that nothing has changed from a year ago so there's no reason to think something would work now. There's still a huge distance gap, I have no plans to move back to my home state, and her mother is still a constant thorn. As in, completely trying to control every aspect of her life. If she wants a relationship she needs to move away far enough where her mom can't just drop in unannounced.

I tried putting up with it. Really, I did, but after several years of the constant putdowns, talking about me behind my back, and deliberately trying to sabotage our relationship, I just couldn't deal with it anymore. She wasn't willing to stand up to her mother, so why should I?

Elessar wrote:

Charmant wrote:
Personally, I've found the human need to always have conversations going to be a very bizarre and incomprehensible thing. Small talk is hollow nothingness for the most part anyway. That's why I like Rin's festival scene the best.

Thats about the same way i see it, still, we never met, we're just writing, so just doing nothing, well, stays nothing.
If you're on a date with someone and the conversation dies out, i think that is pretty awkward as well... but if you're just hanging out with someone, leaving the word "date" aside, silence can be good aswell..

I just got reminded of another issue i have.. messages that consist of "ah ok " and not more as a response to a response.... it's just, i always think "damn gurl, wth is that supposed to tell me?" and the next question is: Do i just, like, go on asking stuff? Do i wait if there maybe comes more? is there anything else i can do?

azumeow wrote:
Here's a free life tip: If someone asks you to talk to their suicidal friend, don't end up sleeping with them. It doesn't go anywhere good.

metalangel wrote: I'd certainly buy you a drink after hearing that, though.

azumeow wrote:Here's a free life tip: If someone asks you to talk to their suicidal friend, don't end up sleeping with them. It doesn't go anywhere good.

Steinherz wrote:
Remember kids: Don't stick your dick in crazy.

Steinherz wrote: Remember kids: Don't stick your dick in crazy.

Munchenhausen wrote:

Steinherz wrote: Remember kids: Don't stick your dick in crazy.

No truer words ever spoken.
I remember my ex once sent me fifteen texts after I accidentally dozed off, going from "Babe you there?" to "why wont you talk to me?" to "please don't leave me, please! what have I done please tell me?"
I woke up a few minutes later and she didn't believe I fell asleep.

Don't do crazy, kids.
Not even once.

Zarys wrote:I really don't get how the attention of a girl could be bothering unless she is ugly.