Re: Is there such a thing?
Posted: Fri Nov 16, 2012 4:23 am
That is a very healthy attitude to take. Kudos to you, good sir.H_Shot_W wrote:Well, I was married at the age of twenty two, and thought I was absolutely in love.
The woman was dedicated, even though my work in the military had put a strain on our relationship. We never had kids, though we wanted to.
One day she had come to me and had apparently got sick of it all. She gave me an ultimatum. She couldn't keep "this game up" as she had so eloquently put it and so she gave me two choices: the Beret or her.
. . .
I'm still a Weapons Sergeant.
However, that isn't to say there is no such thing as true love. I myself have given up on finding it for myself, because after one failed marriage and numerous other failed relationships, it doesn's seem like the kind of thing meant for me. In the end it looks like I'm to be eternally married to my career and I have no real problem with that sort of thing. I've met people who have found it. Hell, one of my good friends has been doing the same job as me for almost as long as me, and he's been happily married to the same woman for years. Maybe, should some woman ever come to realize that I'd much rather be happy than safe, and who can appreciate that finds that then I might be tempted to put a ring on it.
Until that time, I'm just going to drink my beer, and kick my feet up.
I wish you the best, though, and may you have a wonderful experience of it.