Eurobeatjester wrote:Zarys wrote:You can explain the concept of neckboard fedora guy, manosphere, and generaly what is so wrong with what he have said ? I'm not a specialist of Internet culture so maybe It's just that I don't understand all what is implied.
"Neckbeard Fedora Guy" - it's kindof a take on people who have attitudes like this. Nothing is wrong with
them, it's the
world that's wrong. The term originated on Myspace and Facebook from people that would post the types of things being said here about the evils of women, religion, etc.
Enough of the people who would post things like this would have two things in common: An unshaven face that was so bad a beard was growing not just on the chin but on the neck (hence, neckbeard) and a $10 fedora from Walmart because for some reason, a lot of people think it's a fashion statement.
A lot of people that say "I won't settle for less than X in a man/woman" or "No man/woman is good enough for me" are completely oblivious to the way they look and do nothing to keep up their own appearances. In women it can be harder to tell, but almost universally, men who let themselves go like this have a "neckbeard" because it's the first thing that grows in once you start to neglect your appearance.
In short, it's a holier than thou attitude that is quick to call out all flaws in others while refusing to acknowledge you have any flaws or hypocrisy of your own.
"Manosphere" - the whole concept he's discussing has to do with the perception that men aren't men anymore and have been degraded by women and society. But instead of trying to be equals, what he's encouraging is that men "become men again" by completely degrading women on almost every level and putting them in their place.
So that's what's wrong with what he's saying. It's equating men as less than equal to women, so the point is to make women lesser than men disguised through things like "alpha male" and "playing the game" and the like.
None of this has anything to do with finding a quality person you can spend your life with that makes you happy. It's mainly about getting revenge on a whole gender through destructive behavior because someone dumped you or turned you down.
Most of those guys wearing a fedora and generally looking awkward as hell are either very socially unskilled or on autistic spectrum. Social skills can be learned, so it's not a big deal, but autism is a condition that makes one's life a lot harder, so I'd say it's in poor taste to even throw the term "fedora" around too much.
If anything you're telling us a bit about yourself by using it.
I don't know what you think by manosphere wanting to "completely degrade women".
Alpha male in manosphere terms is a confident, strong man with a fulfilling goal in life that either has a lot of sexual partners, or 1 high quality partner if he choses to. The main point is having a choice, not hanging around and "falling in love" with a first decent looking girl that's nice to you.
The game is a set of social skills that helps with convincing a girl to have safe and consensual sex with you. It's proven to work and can be learned and applied by anyone. The point is that nothing brings two people closer together than having sex - 1 night of banging will bring you closer to a girl than 10 romantic dinner dates. After you're done it's on both of you to decide whether to stop seeing each other, become friends with benefits, or pursue a long term relationship.
I hope this clears things - I made my points very clear and I doubt any more explanation will be needed.
Best of luck to everyone with solving your problems. Know this: when you're given a shorter stick than everyone else, what you do is sharpen it and proceed to stab anyone that gets in your way! Figuratively, of course.
EDIT: Another thought - the game is like Krav Maga, which is a mixed martial art developed by Israel Defense Forces. It's meant to cause maximum possible damage in a simplest possible way. Now, you can use that knowledge to defend yourself and others, or you can become a dangerous criminal. Just like the game - it's designed to get maximum possible sex in a simplest possible way, and can be used for either good or bad.
