Just want to update, I am going to see a counsellor soon. I have been before and while that time it made me worse, this time I am going for a completely different reason. I need advise and I think they can give it, plus its a free service. ^^ Also random tidbit - I had a bit of a breakdown today but...
I would love to hang out with Hanako. I think it would be so chill, then again in Hisao's position I probably would have never approached her ever... and she would never approach me so realistically we'd never meet. xD
Your heart will change only if you want it to. If its set on something your mind knows you can't have, it's really up to you to divert its attention elsewhere. How to do that, exactly, depends on the situation. You can't reason with it, though. The decision has to be as emotional as it is logical -...
Don't let your heart fool you, it can mess up your thought process and decision taking. Following your heart doesn't mean that you are following your true feelings, it kills the rational thinking and twists your spatial and reality awareness. It makes the left hemisphere of your brain too obsessive...
"The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately sick; who can understand it?" "Follow your heart" is very often terrible advice, and I always wince whenever I hear someone spouting that platitude in a movie or TV show. The heart wants what it wants, despite all reason ...
Sorry I havent replied to anyone, I might be able to again soon <3 I just have a question, I will google it, but I wanted you guys experience. Can you change what your heart wants? I ask because its really pissing me off and has done for years. Its completely retarded and I hate it. I managed to get...
I would definitely pick being blind. It would take a lot away from me but it would be the start of a new beginning. I would be able to find another reason to live. ^^
I might be wrong, but from what you've descripted, you tend to run away from any coercive/forceful communication, perhaps? Along with the intense fear of anything stressful that is coming. These things might be related to something that has happened in your past or not . I don't really know since I...
@Beoran - Thank you. I guess I dont really know how to approach a professional or what to say. @Erenussocrates - I am 21. I dont really know how to word it, his not really causing a problem, his trying to help me. Unfortunately we never talk, theres a been a complete lack of communication since I wa...
I don't know any good sites, but I can offer my own experience; it seems you've already found it: keeping yourself occupied. I'm very musical, so my outlet of choice is the piano. I just sit down and start playing (improvisation) around how I'm feeling. Other times, I might write a poem or a diary ...
Guys I need help, I cant find any good sites on fear/anxiety. All I found are what sound like advertisements spouting alot of stuff and then saying "buy this book" or something and its not helping. I have barely been able to keep myself calm all day. I dont think I have time to overcome wh...